Have you ever felt like your mind is being controlled? In a daily basis, you might not notice it but you will be aware as soon as you feel that something has changed in you.
The responsability of this happening is in our hands. The responsability of taking care of our mental health is ours. Most of the problems are self created due to a bad management of external elements surrounding us: it could be people, your friends, family, but also what you see on TV, classes and stuff you hear from other people. Some people have the ability of filtering and they don’t get damaged but people who are used to pay attention to everything might not be able of it. It is okay. It happens but it can be avoided.
See, our brain saves information in pictures, just like our memories, we can visualize everything we remember mostly in pictures. Words become pictures, thoughts become images and pictures are stored as pictures. Your brain will remember them even if you are not aware of them right now. This is why we have to watch out of what we are saving in our brain, because it can shape the way you act, the way you think and that may cause you damages. When a person is completely drowning in negative news, negative events or experiences he or she will need some balance. For that it is required positiveness, it is required strength and will power to fight the negativity because this is how you get rid of it: fill your brain with happier stuff, spend time laughing alone or in group, sing or dance…let your mind be in peace for once far from the poison given to you through TV (just watch the news everyday and tell me, how many positive news do they tell you in each session??). Society is powerful when we talk about shaping minds, it makes you create fear, worry, sadness and anxiety. In the other hand, take this as a lesson or in other words, let’s see the positive side in this: it means we gotta learn how to evade bad influences and how to fight them with other positive ways and balance your mental health. Let’s stop being a follower and stop everything that is getting in our heads. It is a choice, our responsability. Wether you see bad things happening, remember that there is also the bright and beautiful side showing you that some things really happen to turn out well!!! Don’t let others drain hope out of you, show them some hope instead. If they don’t believe in you, then it is not up to you to carry that responsability. First of all, we gotta be selfish sometimes in order to keep our needs and health running well and when we are well with ourselves we can watch upon others.
You know, when we feel well and healthy (mental and physically) each of us carry our own frequency. Everything has its frequency, its natural state. But you also know that if two different frequencies shock with each other it will create unbalance. One of them my get some stability but the other will loose its natural state. And that is when you become ill. If you have a negative frequency, full of negative thoughts and experiences, that frequency will just seek the same kind of frequency if you don’t manage to change it. So if you ever felt poisoned from external events or experiences, make sure you find your balance again. Find your frequency, stay away of what is consuming your thoughts, seek your natural state and I am 100% sure you will be okay, you will get rid of the frequency that tried to shape your mind and made you create fear, worry or anxiety. It is important for us, human beings, to explore our abilities and to try new stuff. Why won’t you let you try different stuff? Maybe because you heard before it doesn’t work. But can you hear yourself now? You are being mentally shaped again. Just do it and see it for yourself. Did you ever thought you could try even though someone told you it is bullshit? I will tell you something, does everybody react the same way to a medicine or sickness? No, people are different, it might work for you and it might not for others. Though, I do believe that if we want to get better and free ourselves from the negativity, there is nothing stopping you from trying and find what you really need or want. The only thing stopping you is yourself. If you have the will, you have the first step for success but you gotta embrace it and don’t give up at the first day, the first week or the first month. Each of one of us need an exact amount of time to reach the top. When you are climbing a mountain, some will arrive first and some will do it after you, don’t try to keep up the pace with others, just go, you eventually will get there and free your mind from negativity.
Negativity exists but most people are not aware of the effects because they think it doesn’t change. If you are in that vibration for so long how do you expect to change it in a little amount of time?? You can’t, so don’t loose hope immediately and go back to the same drowning circle you put yourself into. It is your creation. If you have the ability to be unpleasant to yourself then you probably have the ability to change and be pleasant to your own being. When you get this in your mind once and for all, you are in it, you are ready to get rid of the negativity. Once we stop playing as victims and realize that we are the author of our mind, our feelings, the real owner of ourselves then we are ready to live things differently and don’t let negativity goes near our natural frequency and change it again.If you love yourself you won’t let that happen. The hardest part is we only notice something is wrong with us when we feel it, because we didn’t pay attention to ourselves before, we didn’t look inside of us and did some reflection about “what have I been doing? What have I been saving in my mind? Am I okay?” Most of time we are seeking something that will bring us joy. That is a distraction and an evasion and you just act as a draining pipe. This kinda sound contradictory of what I have just said about being positive, so let me explain myself: make your own joy, you can look for joy yes but then stay in that frequency, when a joyful moment ends, keep yourself joyful, don’t let it end, keep the frequency within you.
Another sad part is that people feel ashamed and embarrassed by talking about this kind of stuff and some people loose their way because they refuse to speak out their mind to someone. All these feelings are self created. If the person is your friend and you trust him/her there is no right for this person to ever judge you because above all we are equals, which means you can’t fight what is wrong if you are already wrong (and perhaps there is nothing wrong about it but that is the perspective from some people…and that is okay, but no one has the right to make you live under their standards, you choose yours in order to keep you own balance, not theirs).
I said everything I just wanted to say. So please if you have any thoughts or want to share anything else here, feel free to “speak your mind”. After all this is my blog for life’s reflection and reflection is needed when we have to look at our inner self.


Namasté!
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